Welcome To Attaining American Dreams !!!!!! TM
And when that glorious quest IS yours, and Failure itself stands irked,
Remember both life's shifting sands, and those whom Fortune has shirked.
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| Behavior Management - Avoiding Self-Destructive Behaviors - Drug, Alcohol, Obsessive, And Other TM |
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SECTION 1 - IF THE DOORS OF PERCEPTION CAN OPEN DOORS OF ATTAINMENT…
How Do Our Dreams Become Tomorrow - And Then Tomorrow Again - And Then Never Again - Or Never Ever At All?
Can't Our Individual Dreams All Just Get Along?
How People Get Into Unpleasant Situations - With A View To Your Avoiding Them In The Future [The Meadow Muffins Extensimod = Extension Module - With A View To Your Not Stepping On Them!]
Follow The Yellow Brick Road!
Is He Or She Nutzoid?
Are We All Nutzoid?
The Pursuit Of Happiness
Happily Ever After - Gold
The Importance Of Smiling, Of Saying Hi, Of Appropriately Talking To Strangers, And Of Taking Other Risks - But, Also, Of Asking The Right Questions Before Entering Into Relationships With Potential Employees, Potential Love Interests, And Others
How To Cheat Depression - And Enrich Ourselves
What To Do If You Just Don't Like The World
SECTION 2 - OF INSECURITIES, OSCILLATIONS IN CONFIDENCE, AND THE DESIRE FOR AFFILIATION
Underlying And Explaining Much - And Perhaps More! - Of Human Behavior
Section 132, Attaining American Dreams !!!!!! TM:
FROM "WHAT'S IT ALL ABOUT, ALFIE?" TO "LOVE THE ONE YOU'RE WITH!"!!!!!!
-- PLUS, A EULOGY -- OFFERED NOT SO MUCH IN CELEBRATION OF A LIFE, BUT IN ANSWER TO THE QUESTION OF... "WHAT'S IT ALL ABOUT?"!
-- PLUS, A SPEECH -- OFFERED NOT SO MUCH IN HONOR OF A SPEECH, BUT IN ANSWER TO THE QUESTION OF... "WHAT'S IT ALL ABOUT?"!
SECTION 3 - WHAT EVERY EMPLOYER - AND PERSON! - MUST KNOW…
If There Were No “We” There Would Be No Problem - Therefore, “ We ” Is The Problem!
Some Key Questions Of Life - And Whether Last Ditch Rat Training Can Help
Of Water Coolers - And Lost Productivity
Is Behavior Bio, Psycho, Or Social - Aside From Being Psycho? (Why Doo Doggies And We Doo The Things We Doo?!)
Isn't It Just Crazy?!… ‘Cause We All Look The Same At Age 80!
The Importance Of Working Backwards - And Of Recognizing And Valuing Intangibles
Why " We " Is The Problem - And Why Many Problems Resulting In Anger, Depression, And Violence Can Be Avoided By Avoiding Mistakes People Often Make In Their Thinking
SECTION 4 - IF I ONLY HAD A (BIOCHEMICALLY WELL-FUNCTIONING, AND SHOWING ONLY PEACHY SCAN RESULTS!) BRAIN…
1 Identifying And 2 Shaping The Behaviors That Hinder Or Facilitate Your Attainment Of Your Dreams…
Don't Hire, Fire, Marry, Divorce, Or Sign Up A New Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Before Learning This!…
To What Degree Can We Really Shape The Behavior Of Others - Especially Given The Biopsychosocial Issues?
Is It “Free Will” - Or “Will-Free”?
The Brain Drain
What Brain Research Shows - And Common Sense Knows…
Brain Matters!
Constellations Of Behavior - And How To Improve The Universe!
SECTION 5 - ALCOHOL AND OTHER DRUG DEPENDENCE - BIOPSYCHOSOCIAL FACTORS
Is It Your Fault, “Others' Fault” (Always!), Or The Fault Of No One?
How To Spot Signs Of Drug Use
Drug Schedules
Whose Responsibility Is It?
Paradigm Shift?
The Disease Concept
Biopsychosocial?
Biopsychosocial Influences
Hasbutugotcha?
Sapient Mind Over Reptilian Din
Fight/Flight Vs. Feed/Breed
Magic Carpet Rides
Molecular Firestorms
On Getting High
Mixing It All Together / Balancing The Whole Person
SECTION 6 - ALCOHOL AND OTHER DRUG DEPENDENCE -
DRUG MYTHS, REALITIES, AND TYPES
Of Downward Spiral Agents (= What's Your Poison De Jour?)
Myths Versus Realities Of AOD Abuse
Drug Ironies And Definitions
Dependence Versus Abuse
Corporate Substance Abuse - Why Your Company Must Be Concerned...
When Does Use Become Abuse?
What Causes Use To Become Abuse?
Drug Detection Periods
Alcohol
Cannabis (Marijuana)
Cocaine
Depressants
Designer Drugs
Hallucinogens
Inhalants
Narcotics
Stimulants
Tranquilizers
SECTION 7 - ALCOHOL AND OTHER DRUG DEPENDENCE -
STAGES OF ADDICTION AND RECOVERY
Wheee, “Ain't This Fun (- Aside From Destroyed Relationships, Brain Cells, Liver Cells, Pancreas Cells, Functioning As A Human Being, Etc.!)!?
Arousal Levels
Payback
Signs And Symptoms Of AOD Abuse
Stages Of Addiction And Alcoholism
Initial Crisis Or Relapse Warning Signs And Stages
The "ISM" In Alcoholism
Self-Diagnosis
The Drug Ritual
Goals Along The Path Toward Recovery
What Is Alcoholics Anonymous (= "AA")?
What To Do If You Are Hooked
What To Do If Another Is Hooked
SECTION 8 - ALCOHOL AND OTHER DRUG DEPENDENCE -
THE OBSESSIVE-COMPULSIVE CACHE
Pathetic Thinking Seldom Increases Cash
Obsessive Pathetic Thinking
Path - Or Pathology?
Loop De Loop
Addictive Clutter
Obsessive-Compulsive Clutter
Stressful Clutter
SECTION 9 - CO-DEPENDENCY
Do This And You Do In Others - And Yourself
Co-Dependency
Pulling Up Your Covers
Enabling
How To Overcome It
Surviving The Alcoholic
System Dynamics Of The Alcoholic Family
Family Crisis Stages
SECTION 10 - HARASSMENT AND DISCRIMINATION IN THE WORKPLACE
Do This And You Do In Others - And Yourself - Again!
What's It All About, Alfie?
Key Federal Legislation
Key State And Local Legislation
What Should Or Must An Employer Do?
How To Overcome “It”
SECTION 11 - WILL YOU TAKE MORE THAN YOU GIVE?
Will Your Life Be A Deficit Of Selfishness - Or A Surplus Of Having Meant Much, Much More - Both To Others And Yourself?
Will You Take More Than You Give?
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© 2003-2004, G. Darrell Berglund, Esq., all rights reserved, and don't even think of doing so! |
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Aside from that, have a great day! |